Anal sex can be enjoyable without being painful. This is fun for both men and women, as long as you keep an open mind. There are a few things to think about and practice before attempting to jump in so to speak. Here are a few of the best tips to help you and your partner enjoy a new experience.
Start Slowly
Anal sex is something that needs to be done with care, especially for those who have never done it before. You can’t expect to just be able to jump right in to it. Instead, start slowly, and small. Try a finger or two first. As you become more comfortable with it, you can work your way up. Many people prefer to play solo before they introduce a partner to this act.
Use Good Lubes
The key to pleasurable anal sex is lube. Many companies make lube specifically for anal purposes, although any water based product will work. The first few times you try this you will need to use more than ordinary.
Communicate
You can’t be afraid to talk to your partner for this. Both parties must be able to communicate effectively to avoid this turning in to a bad experience. Tell your partner if it’s too much, and let them know what feels good.
Know Who’s in Charge
For anal sex, the person receiving should be in charge. This means allowing them to make the movements. The best positions for beginners would be allowing the receiver to be on top. This will allow them to control the amount of penetration and the speed.