When oral sex is done right it’s extraordinarily pleasurable for a woman. If you’re sloppy and don’t pay attention, the experience can be awful for her, making her not want to do it again. Here are a few tips to help you give her an awesome experience.
Understand her Concerns
Allowing a man to go down there is difficult for a woman. Even women who don’t have body issues will have a few hang ups about oral sex. They may worry that it doesn’t smell good, they may be afraid of how it’s going to look, and some women are fearful because they’ve had bad experiences. You can simply reassure her, letting her know how great she smells and tastes, and how hot she looks.
Go Lightly
The clitoris is packed full of nerve endings, and a rough tongue can be very uncomfortable. You should not apply more pressure than you would while licking an envelope. As she gets in to it, you can play with the pressure until you find the right combination for her.
Move Around
Don’t focus on the clit the whole time. Tease the rest of the area, including her labia, with your tongue and fingers. You can even introduce some gentle penetration with your fingers during oral sex to intensify the act.
Listen to Her
If she asks you to come back up, don’t take this personally. Many women will orgasm quickly with oral sex, and others just become irritated after a prolonged period. If she asks you to come back up, just ask her what you can do. If you have a good relationship she will be honest with you. Chances are the sensations were just too intense.